With Marty Lacker,
Joe Esposito served as best men at Elvis and Priscilla's wedding on
May 1 1968
. As a member of the Memphis
Mafia he drove Priscilla to the hospital the day, Lisa Marie was born.
And it was Joe who told Priscilla the tragic news that Elvis had died.
Since Elvis' death Esposito worked as road manager for the Bee Gees, and
today he owns a
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I was not the one to drive Priscilla and EP to the hospital to
have Lisa Marie. It was Jerry Schilling and Charlie Hodge. I flew in
a couple of
Over the years, Joe has often been asked to verify many controversies
surrounding the sightings and still alive rumours.
WOULD ELVIS BE DOING IF WERE STILL ALIVE?
He would have liked to
go back in to movie business. He wanted to do better films, some action
movies, and maybe even direct. As far as his recording career, I think
he would have gone back to his roots and recorded more country and
gospel songs. But he always loved rock and roll music the most.
WHAT SORT OF THINGS SCARED ELVIS? Elvis wasn't scared of much. At one stage he was afraid of flying. Elvis
was very impatient so he eventually had to commute by plane. He never
feared dying. He believed he'd go went God willed it.
WHAT WERE SOME OTHER
MOVIE ROLES ELVIS TURNED DOWN? We all know he turned down the lead in A Star in Born, because the
Colonel didn't think it a role right for Elvis' image. The other movie
was Being There. The producer wanted Elvis. It eventually starred Peter
Sellers. Ironically it was his last role.
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ELVIS STRAIGHT UP!
by Joe Esposito
- I first met Elvis Presley in the Army in 1958 and began working for him soon after we were both released from the service in 1960. Literally, until the day he died seventeen years later, my life and the exciting world he lived within became my existence. It was a wild, crazy ride. And despite some very tense periods, I loved every minute of it!
Over the past thirty years, I have been asked by fans around the world countless questions about him. There doesn't seem to be one detail about the man that people aren't interested in. Over the years, I have been as forthright with my answers as I can. During the years immediately after his death, I grappled over how to answer some of the more difficult questions being asked about Elvis's life, and I came to the decision that telling the truth works best.
I was with Elvis for seventeen years. That's a long time, and being with Elvis was no 9 to 5 job. Elvis's demanding lifestyle meant you had to be available 24/7. He was a handful. You never knew from one day to the next what adventure he would call upon us to explore with him, or what insane lengths we might have to go to fulfill one of his outlandish desires or elaborate requests. So much was happening so fast during those years. Elvis was always on the go that it's sometimes hard to pair events with the eras they took place. I have tried in the past to assemble my memories into a book, but it really is an unrealistic expectation. How could I possibly squeeze seventeen years of experiences with Elvis Presley into two or three hundred pages? Well, you can't. However, the dilemma inspired the "Elvis-Straight Up" series. A series affords a lot more freedom to elaborate on a wider variety of stories, and in far greater detail than ever before.
I am thrilled to be working with noted writer and Elvis historian, Joe Russo. Russo has an uncanny ability to recapture the thrill and intensity of living with Elvis most vividly. Being involved in entertainment he has some insight into the business and the personalities involved. He has been helping me explore the details of my years with Elvis from my memory for fans to enjoy.
Joe Russo's project has no agenda other than telling the plain truth. No axe to grind. No ulterior motive. No score to settle. I held nothing back this time. What this collaboration has created is a balanced, thoughtful and heartfelt account of life with Elvis Presley. Elvis possessed a very special magic and power, not only as a performer, but also as a human being as well. As a performer, there simply has never been an equal. Nobody has what he had. It's that simple. He was the only entertainer in the world who could move and inspire people. Once he "touched" you, that was it. You were hooked for life.
And as a human being? As long as I live, I know I will never see anyone have such a profound effect on people. He could make anyone, and I mean anyone, feel like he was the most important person in the world just by talking with him. He had charisma and charm that is just indescribable.. and he didn't even have to sing! When Elvis entered a room, you could feel the energy of his presence tingle at your nerves because the power of his magnetism was that intense.. and Elvis was just as perplexed by this phenomenon as you or I. He was a humble man but keenly aware of his unique gifts and spent most of his life searching the spirituality clues why he was chosen to be "Elvis Presley". Over and over throughout his life he asked himself, Why me? Since his death have asked myself the same question, "why me?" and why, of all the people Elvis met in the service, did he pay special attention to me? In fact, why was I even in the Army? Did destiny lead me into the Army for the sole purpose of meeting Elvis Presley? Why was I selected to become "right hand man to one of the most celebrated entertainer in history, and to be chosen by Elvis Presley as a best man at his wedding?
If only a portion of how larger than life Elvis was, or how incredible a time I had being with him is conveyed to fans by my recollection , it may also bring me closer to answering that question for myself... "Why me?
ELVIS & "THE BOOK": Weeks prior to Elvis's death in August of 1977, a paperback book titled Elvis: What Happened? was released by Random House publishers. It was authored by a tabloid journalist named Steve Dunleavy based on interviews with Memphis Mafia" members Red West, his cousin Sonny West and Elvis's karate instructors, Dave Hebler. The three bodyguards were unceremoniously fired in mid-1976, made a
terrible decision that would shattered Elvis's world and created the greatest devastating upheaval in his personal life since the passing of his beloved mother. The book would become a blockbuster, one of the best-selling paperbacks of all time. It's timing couldn't have been better, or worse, depending on which end of the gun barrel you were on.
Red West and Elvis were very close. They were from the same part of Memphis and went to the same school together. The incident that cemented them forever happened during their days at Humes High School, when Red thwarted a group of bullies from beating up on Elvis. From then on, they were thick as thieves. Red eventually took on the role of protecting Elvis with his life until the day they parted company, over twenty years later. Red was there from the beginning, his sincerity proven by the fact that he befriended Elvis long before he was a star. Red was one of the few of us who knew his mother, Gladys. Elvis and Red were very tight. There's no question about it. In a way, they were brothers. They loved like each other like brothers, and on more than one occasion, they clashed like brothers.
Now, every one of us who had ever worked for Elvis had been fired at least once. It was something that was inevitable if you were around him for any period of time. But we also knew, that sooner or later you would be asked to come back. So for the life of me I could never understand, until this day, why Red and Sonny turned against Elvis the way they did. Scorned, they retaliated by aligning themselves with a sensationalist writer and began work on an explosive "tell all" expose of Elvis's personal life, his faults, bad habits and temper tantrums. To be fair, they did covered the good times as well: Elvis's generosity, his immense talent, his love affair with his fans, etc. The main purpose of the book however, was to return fire and blow the lid off the Presley myth. They were let go in July of 1976, and within six months we were reading sample chapters of this book eventually known as Elvis, What Happened?
As Elvis poured over the pages, reading the most salacious things he could ever imagine anyone saying about him, he became ashen. He was devastated. He was convinced this book would destroy his whole life. And in a way, I really believe it did. He lost his will to fight. Onstage, he was always singing the lyric, "Lord, this time you gave me a
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Presley, the most influential rock 'n' roll
figure, made one simple tour demand. "Two
six-packs of Mountain Valley spring water," said
Elvis Presley's best friend, Joe Esposito. "All
these people today, who want certain colour M&Ms
removed, or water at a certain temperature, are in
show business for the wrong reason... Elvis lived
to sing on stage for the people.
Esposito, 71, was in Australia working for the Daiquiri
Group. He visited the Gold Coast, Sydney and spent two weeks in
Melbourne. His real job, however, is casino host for high rollers at Wynn Resort in Las Vegas.
Steve Wynn, arguably the most powerful man in Vegas, hired Esposito for the same reason Daiquiri Group wants part of the action
his connection to Elvis
Esposito met Presley in 1958 while doing military service and stationed in
Germany. "One thing Elvis liked about me is I'm a very organised person, a detail freak," Esposito said.
"We were in Paris for a week. He saw how I handled everything, took care of money and got receipts together."
After they left the army in 1960, Esposito became Presley's road manager and bodyguard.
Esposito was constantly with Presley, including when he met future wife Priscilla. He was
Presley's best man at the wedding. He was at Graceland when
Elvis never understand his God-given talents. "It was the biggest mystery of his life," Esposito said. "It drove him nuts."
Elvis would ask Joe "Why did God pick me to be this one individual that has all this attraction? Why did he give me such a great voice?"
Esposito replied: "Elvis, you are very honored. That's what it is. You're gifted. Enjoy it."
Elvis liked The Beatles, but could not understand the psychedelic era.
Elvis loved entertainers who sang from the heart -- because he
did... but he was confused by psychedelic music. To him, the words didn't make much sense. Everybody was probably stoned out of their mind.
If he listened to it, he'd always ask: 'What does that mean?' "
Elvis knew the score, however, when he met Priscilla Beaulieu while in Germany in 1959.
"Nobody knew she was 14," Esposito said. "She was very grown
up. Their first encounters were playful and innocent. People always had the wrong impression and thought they had sex. No," Esposito said.
"They would sit and talk. He sat at the piano, she sat next to him and he would sing old songs.
He was very much a gentleman. He wanted to get to know her."
Elvis and Priscilla married in Las Vegas in 1967. Esposito created a ruse so the press thought the wedding was in Palm Springs.
As the media staked out Palm Springs, Esposito had two aircraft, including Frank Sinatra's Lear jet, ready to take the wedding party to Vegas.
"We got to Las Vegas and went downtown to get a marriage licence," Esposito said.
"It was 15 bucks. But Elvis didn't have a dime in his pocket." Esposito paid for the marriage licence. Later, he was best man at the wedding.
Esposito has long said Elvis could never be faithful to one woman -- including Priscilla.
"He loved women too much. He loved this one, he loved that one," Esposito said.
"And all the girls he dated idolised him."
Elvis spiral into prescription drug hell began with painkillers.
"He got hooked real bad," Esposito said. The drugs would cause mood swings and depression.
"Sometimes, Elvis would be very upset, then his mood would change.
"He would scream and yell at us, then the next day he would be fine.
"It wasn't too good in the last year of life. But we never thought he would die."
Elvis tried to quit his addiction. "There would be times where he would stop taking anything for a month or two," he said.
"If a 42-year-old man doesn't want to help himself, you can't do a damn thing about it. He has to want to do it.
There was nothing more we could do."
While Esposito was Presley's right-hand man, Col. Parker kept tight reins on the star.
Esposito denied widespread theories that Parker manipulated Presley.
"Elvis was not an easy guy to handle. He could be hard headed. But Parker came up with more smart ideas than anybody.
Nobody could compare with what he did for Elvis Presley." Parker was careful not to overexpose Presley.
"He kept a mystery," Esposito said. "They had fights and disagreements. The colonel wasn't perfect. Neither was Elvis. They were human."
Presley died on August 16, 1977, after a heart attack. Esposito was at Graceland and called the ambulance.
"I knew we were too late," he said. "He was already gone."
Esposito became tour manager for Michael Jackson, Karen Carpenter, the Bee Gees and John Denver. Esposito said Jackson's brief marriage to Presley's daughter, Lisa Marie Presley, was a decoy because Jackson was embroiled in claims of child molestation.
"She was just trying to help Michael out at the time.... They were friends but, little by little, people realised what she was trying to do."
Jackson has planned a string of concerts in London in July, but Esposito said Jackson's comeback chances were slim.
"He has to see a psychiatrist, but he isn't going to do that. He's not going to admit he has a problem," he said.
Esposito said Carpenter was dealing with her eating disorder when it killed her.
"I would try to make her eat. I would beg her to not go the bathroom and throw up," he said.
"I thought she was getting better. But her heart stopped. She was a very, very nice lady."
Esposito is still good friends with Bee Gees star Barry Gibb. "(Barry's brother) Robin was always the weird guy. He is a genius, but in another world," Esposito said.
"He would give me notes every once in a while. But they were written so small, I couldn't read them."
He smiled and said times, and celebrity culture, had changed. Most new millennium stars were ungrateful brats.
"Celebrities in the old days had more respect for the fans," Esposito said. "It bugs the hell out of me that the new kids don't know about respect and courtesy. If it wasn't for the fans, they wouldn't be stars. A lot of entertainers won't even sign autographs today.
"Elvis would sign every autograph. He had respect for people.
Elvis honored his fans too much to try the ultimate conspiracy -- that he faked his death.
"These so-called Elvis sightings are hurtful," Esposito said. "If he were alive, Elvis would never stop singing. He would rather be dead than not be on stage, singing. But I was there, man. He's gone. I wish he wasn't, but he is. Elvis is gone."